Creating a Winning Profile
If more than two people want the same thing, there is going to be some competition. If there is competition then be prepared to play to win.
Some of the most attractive and charming Sugar Babies fail to get their point across because they either said too much in their profile or simply said the wrong things. Follow the formula when posting your profile ladies you’ll have rich Sugar Daddies beating your door down faster than you can say “bring the Bentley around front.”
Sugar Daddy Dating is a Baggage Free Zone
Never talk about past relationships or complain about ANYTHING when posting your profile. Avoid language like “tired of all the games,” “recently divorced from a loveless marriage” (someone really posted this), or “don’t contact me unless you’re serious.”
EVERYONE has had a negative relationship experience, but no self-respecting Sugar Daddy is going to be enticed by a profile that even remotely sounds like a lecture or a sob story. Keep it positive, talk about how much fun you like to have, what your friends have to say about you, or even how free and unencumbered you are.
Sugar Daddies are wealthy men. They work a lot and generally thrive in high-stress environments. They seek out beautiful and affectionate Sugar Babies because of the simplicity of the dynamic. The last thing they need is another hassle. Keep your profile light, positive and fun and you’ll find what you’re looking for.
Use Pictures that Send the Right Message
Once again, the basic axiom here is fun, free and easy, warm and breezy. If you’re short on pics to post don’t use your passport photo out of desperation. If you don’t have pictures of yourself (most people don’t) your friends probably do. Go back to the well and find some photos of you out on the town with your girlfriends. This sends the message that you’re social, you actually have friends, and it expresses your personality as well as your looks.
If you really want to do it right shoot some fresh photos. However, do not, under any circumstance, use photos from those photo studios inside of shopping malls. The photographers there are generally high school kids working a part time job and the first thing they’ll do is put a ridiculous hat on your head and have you pull it down over one eye or worse yet, drape you in a feather bolo.
Selecting a Sugar Baby is an emotional, not a logical decision. You have to include photos in your profile that convey the proper vibe. Pictures of you on vacation, at the beach, in the mountains, or in a very cool nightclub send the right message. Be creative and use a variety of photos but ones that clearly show what you actually look like.
Desperation is a Horrible Perfume
Sugar Daddies, Sugar Babies, or anyone else for that matter, are not attracted to clingers, clutchers, lost causes, works in progress or train wrecks. Sure this may sound a little harsh, but no matter how badly you’re looking to improve your standard of living, be a little aloof and exercise some tact when you talk about your current financial circumstances.
When you make reference to an expected allowance or your monthly budget, be sure to counterbalance the statement with language that lets the Sugar Daddy know that money isn’t the only pivotal factor; there must also be some chemistry. If you lead on that your power and water are on the verge of being turned off or that you just lost your job, you’ve abandoned any chance of maintaining the upper hand in negotiations, if you even get that far.
Maintain the attitude that it would be nice to be taken care of by a distinguished gentleman, but you still have a great life regardless of whether or not it happens.
Make Your Point but Convey Flexibility
There’s an old Chinese saying that if a tree is not flexible it will break, regardless of how strong it is. If you are rigid in your requests for allowance, gifts, or the conditions of the arrangement, you are going to discourage perfectly compatible Sugar Daddies from ever making first contact.
Use language like, “open to suggestions” or “whatever works for you.” Don’t overdo it or you may come off as being a pushover, but once again, balance your presentation.
For every three sentences that detail what you are looking for, throw in one that lets Sugar Daddy know you’re willing to make some consolations for the right guy.
Close With a Call to Action
“Call to action” is a marketing and e-commerce term that means in order to get the viewer to do what you want them to do, you have to tell them. Avoid phrases like “this one won’t last long” or “get it while you can,” but include language like “e-mail me later today and we can talk about it,” or “contact me tonight so I can tell you what was too personal to post.”
Have some fun with this. If you don’t use a call to action your profile may wind up gathering dust on someone’s Favorites List.
Above all, when posting your profile, try to put yourself in Sugar Daddy’s shoes. Think about what you would want to hear if you were seeking your own Sugar Baby.